Established 2011
Two friends in white robes and towel turbans on a hotel bed, champagne being poured

HENS PARTY IDEAS + MY ULTIMATE HENS PACKAGES

VISION BOARD
STUDIO Her Melbourne hens wishlist

START her WISHLIST Bring your read on her. Play with ideas here, right now. No login required.

WHERE EVERY GREAT HENS BEGINS

You already know the best part. Her.

A hens is girlhood, all grown up: every one of her girls in one place, making an outrageous fuss of her.

Two friends in summer dresses sharing a pastry, one bite each, in a bright white room
A hens group in pink pyjamas and heart sunglasses together on a bed with balloons
Three friendship groups. One bed.
A bride in a veil and her friend in a pink feather boa dancing on a bed under rose gold BRIDE balloons

ULTIMATE HENS

What you save gives us something to work with. We’ll use your favourites, along with your group and date, to find My Ultimate Hens packages that make sense for her.

Somewhere between your Notes app, Pinterest saves and the TikToks she’s sent you, a list is already taking shape.

  • Things she’d love.
  • Things she’d absolutely veto.
  • The little details only her people know.

The ones behind a bride saying, “HOW did you know?” and the girls saying, “OMG, you nailed it. This is SO her.”

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i.e like your own version of this:

  • Champagne girl. Not a shots girl.
  • Will dance anywhere after two margaritas.
  • Absolutely hates being embarrassed.
  • Would secretly love it if everyone dressed up.
A bride to be in a veil and white sunglasses blowing a kiss
the bride to be

Will say she doesn’t want a fuss.She absolutely wants a fuss.

  • Has a restaurant saved on her phone she has never once been to.
  • Her sister HAS to be there.
  • Three different friendship groups. She’ll want everyone together.
  • Talks about one wine region like it is a personality.
  • Screenshots everything. Books nothing.

We’ll come back with the actual deets you can drop into the group chat:

  • where it is,
  • what’s included,
  • what it costs and
  • what’s available for your group and date.

We can talk through the details with you.

Rooftop?

Can we see the menu?

Who’s actually booking this?

Everyone has a thought. She asked you because you know her.

From “thoughts girls?” to something they can actually say yes to

Six friends piled together on a cream couch, laughing and hugging in front of tall windows
Three friends laughing together at a bar at night, glasses raised

Love it, I am in!

Perfect, thanks for all of your hard work with this, she will love it!

I’ll be there, can’t wait x

A Bride To Be balloon arch in pink and gold with a cake on a white plinth

MY ULTIMATE HENS

HAVE A LOOK AROUND.

Save the things that give you a little ooh, maybe.

The things that feel familiar. The things you had not thought of. The things that make you immediately think absolutely not, she would hate that.

There is no right number. Go with your gut.

A must, a maybe and a hard no already tell us plenty. This is a play space and a wishlist for the hens you want to throw her, and the hens she deserves to have.

Every answer tells you something. An extra clue. Even the absolute nos. That is how you land on the hens she will still be going on about years later.

We use those clues, plus what we learn about your group, your date and anything else you want to tell us, to narrow the My Ultimate Hens packages that make sense and are still available on your date. Whether you know every detail or hardly any yet, that is fine.

An ultimate hens wishlist turns an idea into the “of course you thought of that” moment. The difference between this is so fun and stop, you did not.

LET’S START HER WISHLIST Nothing you save here locks you into anything.
A bride to be laughing behind a giant gold ring balloon with her group in pink behind her

THE BRIDE, AFTERWARDS

This girl is well and truely feeling so special.

Tamara StantonReviewed on Google5 out of 5the bride, about her own hens

FROM THE ORGANISERS

What they were worried about, and what happened

I AM NOT THE ORGANISED ONE

As a Type B girly turned maid of honour, My Ultimate made it SO easy being able to leave all the details in their hands!

Our group (and most importantly hen) had the most amazing night and I looked like the best planner ever

Rebekah RasmussenReviewed on Google5 out of 5

NOT MANY OF US DRINK

Josh who helped me find our package remembered I’d mentioned during my first chat that we weren’t sure if a drinks package would be good value for us because not many of us are big drinkers, and he agreed with me and found a package at a lower price point so I really appreciated that and felt really looked after.

Really overjoyed with the outcome and so was Rachel the bride and her very fussy mum as well.

JenniferReviewed on Google5 out of 5

I AM ON THE OTHER SIDE OF THE WORLD

So I organised a hen party from London for my best friend in Australia and honestly didn’t know how I was going to pull it off and so happy I found My Ultimate Hens.

there’s no way I could have done it from the other side of the world without you.

Emily StedmanReviewed on Google5 out of 5

OUR DATE WAS GONE

When we found the package we wanted our original date actually booked out before we locked it in, because I was planning it with another two girls so we wanted to be sure, which honestly that did make things a little stressful at the time that we couldn’t get the date we wanted, but the team were really helpful in finding us the next available weekend.

It was absolutely worth the date shuffle.

Michelle DicksonReviewed on Google5 out of 5

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Nyree, founder of My Ultimate Hens, in her office
NyreeFOUNDERFemale Founded in 2011

“And we’ve been growing, evolving and hens-obsessed ever since. So much has changed over the years, but what has not changed is the essence of it all: the laughter, the sparkle, the connection, and that iconic moment to stop and celebrate the friendships that raise and define us.”

Nyree, Founder, to news.com.au, on My Ultimate Hens’ 15th anniversary

The people who read the clues

Founder-led from day one. Still hands-on. Still noticing the little things

Over 10,000+
Brides have been an Ultimate Hen
Easy Weddings 5-Star Supplier
awarded EVERY YEAR CONTINUOUSLY since 2012

NAMES ORGANISERS MENTION IN THEIR GOOGLE REVIEWSAlex · Nikita · James · Josh · Britt · Maddi

Our founder story

A luxe hens installation of pink and gold balloons and florals with a cake on a white plinth

MY ULTIMATE HENS

Right.
Let’s get this party started.

You’re on the Vision Board Studio now, and this is where her Wishlist starts taking shape.

You have done enough administration for one scroll.
Now we get to the good bit.

No spreadsheets.
No ranking eighty-seven ideas from best to worst.
No expectation that everything you save needs to make sense together.

Pick as many or as few as you like. Leave a whole section blank if none of it is her. You know her better than any list does, so do not overthink it. This is vibes, not a board meeting.

Send it when you are done and we come back with the packages that actually fit her, details and all, so you have something to put in the group chat, all on a personalised link.

A real human, not a bot. Real details. No paywall, no newsletter sign-up. We are too busy running hens for that!

We have all been in the Instagram funnel, excited about something and then made to jump through a thousand hoops. This is not that.

A few quick details, one click, and you hear from one of us at My Ultimate Hens with exact package details, dollars and cents.

Absolutely not.Ooh, maybe.Absolute must.Let’s go and find her hens.

START WITH HER VIBE.

As many or as few as you want.Eleven sections. Skip any that are not her.
Four friends in pink lying together on a bed, photographed from above
A hen in a floral dress laughing with a coupe glass in each hand beside a champagne tower and pink balloons
Three friends in heart-shaped sunglasses around a pink party table with a pastel cake and candles
WHAT FEELS
LIKE her?
A Girls Night Out Vibe
Celebrate Day Through to Night
One Big Day
One Big Night
Full Hens Weekend
Girls Gone Mild
Creative & Crafty
Games & Laughs
Adventure & Adrenaline
Glam & Luxe
A Little Bit Cheeky
Pamper & Reconnect
Wellness & Reset
Wine & Foodie
Low / No Alcohol
It’s A Surprise
Woo Girl Full Send
Golden Hour Sunset
Beach Club Vibes
Rooftop Vibes
Waterfront Vibes
Crafternoon
Woo Girl

KEEP GOING

LET’S CHOOSE HER AESTHETIC.

Maybe there is already a Pinterest board.

Maybe there are several Pinterest boards fighting amongst themselves.

Either works.

Save anything that feels like it belongs in her camera roll.

Decorated hens biscuits in blue and white tile, lemons and Bride to Be icing
Two friends in pink sequins and white cowboy boots against a balloon and champagne backdrop
Sparkling wine being poured into a tower of coupe glasses with disco balls
WHAT LOOKS
LIKE her?
In My Bride Era
RIP Single Life
Bloom in Love
Boho Luxe
BookTok
Bridgerton The Diamond Season
Celestial Stars & Moons
Cottagecore
Cowgirl Glam
Crafternoon
Diamonds & Denim
Ethereal Shimmer / Opal & Chrome
Euro Summer
Fiesta Hens
Frosted & Fabulous
Henschella
Last Disco
Mamma Mia Dancing Queen
Mermaidcore Last Splash
Mob Wife
Old Money Country Club
Pretty In Pink Coquette
SATC Cosmo Queens
Showgirl
Speakeasy After Dark
That’s Amore & Amalfi
Tropical Aloha
Verve and Vows
Y2K Throw-Bach
Girls Just Wanna F1

LET’S CHOOSE THE MUSE CLUB.

Crafternoon keepsakes. Somebody discovering a new hyper-focused talent.

This is the paint and sip for the new hens vibe.

Pick the things you can actually see yourselves doing with her.

Clay earrings being shaped on a crafting table with a glass of sparkling
Pressing dried flowers into a candle at a hens candle making session
A bride to be in a veil and sash at an art and craft class
WHAT WOULD
SHE make?
90s Throwback Class
Aerial Hoop & Spin
Barbie Dance Class
Burlesque Dance Class
Cake Decorating
Candle Pour & Sip
Cheese Making Class
Chocolate & Dessert Making Class
Clay Pottery Class
Cocktail Making Class
Cowgirl Hat Burning
Cowgirl Line Dance Class
Disco 70s Dance Class
Dumpling Making Class
Floristry & Bouquet Making Class
Flower Crown Class
Friendship Bracelet Making
Gin Blending
Hammock Acrobat Workshop
Hip Hop Dance Class
Jewellery Making
Latte Art Class
Silversmithing Class
Mosaic Making Class
Mystery Box Cooking Challenge
Natural Skincare & Bath Bomb Making
Paint & Sip Class
Pasta Making Class
Perfume Making Class
Pizza Making Class
Plant Pot Painting
Pole Dancing Class
Pop Dance Class
Resin Board Making
RnB Dance Class
Roaring 20s Gatsby Class
Trapeze Class
Suspended Silks Experience
Taylor Swift Eras Dance Class
Tea Blending Class
Terrarium Class
Textured Paint Class
UV Glow In The Dark Painting
Vision Board Class
Watercolour Class
Whisky Tasting Masterclass
Wine Flights & Tasting Experience

LET’S CHOOSE GAME ON.

Competition, lots of belly laughs and lots of opportunities for the camera roll.

Two hens in checkered crop tops and racing caps with Team Bride and Bride badges at the go-kart track
A hen laughing as she throws at the target at an axe throwing session
Barefoot bowls on an open green at sunset
HOW COMPETITIVE
IS she?
City Scavenger Hunt / Amazing Race
Escape Room
F1 Racing Simulator
Mini Golf
Virtual Golf Simulator
Golf Course with Clubs & Carts
Driving Range Golf
Axe Throwing Session
Barefoot Bowls
Bubble Soccer
Clay Shooting
Deep Sea Fishing
Drop Line Abseiling
Game Show / Trivia Room
Go Karting
Grown Up Ball Pit
Horse Riding / Trail Ride
Inflatable Boxing
Jet Boating
Laser Tag
Mechanical Bull Riding
Murder Mystery Experience
Paintball
Pickleball
Quad Biking
Skydiving
Snorkelling Adventure
Ten Pin Bowling
Virtual Sports & Arcade Challenge
Helicopter Experience
Pool Tables & Billiards
Darts

LET’S CHOOSE GLOW & RESET.

If this feels like her, pick her version of “Oh wow, I needed that.”

Two friends in white robes, towel turbans and sunglasses relaxing together
Sparkling wine being poured into coupe glasses among friends in pink satin robes
Friends in white robes raising glasses as sparkling wine is poured
HOW DOES SHE
SWITCH off?
Bathhouse & Soak Session
Breathwork & Meditation
Day Spa Experience
Full Glam Makeover
Hair & Blowout Bar
Japanese Head Spa
Mani & Pedi
Massages
Pamper Facials
Pamper Party
Pilates Class
Sound Bath
Yoga & Stretch

LET’S CHOOSE THE MENU.

What belongs at her hens?

The drink she orders every single time.The grazing table that makes a Pinterest board look boring.The mocktail that gets photographed before all of the others.
Individual grazing boxes with salads, pastries and edible flowers
A hand holding a coupe cocktail with a pink foam top at the bar
Two friends in sequin dresses holding orange cocktails with orange slices
WHAT WOULD
SHE order?

LET’S CHOOSE THE SCENE.

Make a scene.

A little bit of extra sparkle to make it truly hers.

A drag performer in sequins and pearls singing into a microphone under pink light
A bride to be in a white hat spraying champagne on the dance floor
Three friends laughing together with cocktails at a bar
HOW MUCH
EXTRA sparkle?
Private Winery Tour
Boat Cruise
Brewery Tour
Distillery Tour
Club Crawl
Pub Crawl
Cocktail Bar Hop
Burlesque Performance
Cabaret Show
Comedy Club
Fire Dancer Performance
Private Drag Queen
Silent Disco
Tarot Reader
Whimsical Tea Leaf Reader
Karaoke Bar
Nightclub Booth
Live Music
Piano Bar
Private Bar Just For Us
VIP Bottle Service
VIP Nightclub Experience

LET’S CHOOSE A LITTLE MISCHIEF.

Her definition of cheeky is the only one that matters.

A wink?A topless waiter?Full send?Or absolutely none of the above, thank you very much.Pick what would make her laugh.Not what somebody decided a hens is “supposed” to have.
A hen laughing on the pole at a hens pole dancing class
A topless waiter at a My Ultimate Hens party
A hens life drawing table with sketches and drinks
HOW CHEEKY
IS she?
Errotery Cheeky Clay Class
Female Stripper
Life Drawing Session With Female Muse
Life Drawing with Male Model
Male Strip Show
Man Candy Show
Naughty Jesmonite Class
Puppetry Of The P*nis Experience
Risque Toy Party
Topless Waiter
Topless Waitress
Cheeky Twerking Class
Bar Hop
Poker
Topless Male Poker Dealer
Topless Female Poker Dealer

LET’S CHOOSE THE HENS WEEKEND.

One room. Whole house. Penthouse. Glamping.

What’s your hens weekend vibe?

Three friends with drinks in a hotel room decorated with pink balloons and disco balls
A hens group in pyjamas with pink balloons
Three friends in white robes on the bed
WHERE DO YOU
ALL wake up?
1 Night Stay
2 Night Hens Weekend
3+ Night Hens Getaway
Ultimate Hens Hotel Room
Ultimate Hens Apartment
Ultimate Hens Sky Suite
Ultimate Hens Penthouse
Ultimate Hens Mansion
Glamping & Camping
People staying different nights
Accommodation for some of us
Accommodation for everyone
Girly Sleepover Girls Night In Vibe

LET’S CHOOSE HOW WE ROLL.

Nobody has ever put excellent transport logic on the hens moodboard.

They do notice when everything is flawless and nobody drifts off to their phone or leaves early.

Which vibe are we going for transport-wise?

Two friends in cowboy hats in the back of a limousine
A hens group celebrating in front of a purple stretch hummer at night
A hens group on a boat cruise
HOW DOES
SHE arrive?
Private Minibus or Chauffeur Transfer
Private Party Bus
Stretch Hummer
Stretch Limousine
Make It Walkable

LET’S CHOOSE THE EXTRA TOUCHES.

Extra personalised touches.

Personalised bride to be cookies made for a hens
Friends getting ready together in personalised robes
A bride to be in a white dress and veil beside rose gold balloons
WHAT MAKES
IT hers?
Extra surprises for the hen
Private Content Capture
Custom Cookies
Bride Personalised Drag Bingo
Bride Personalised Drag Trivia
Photo Booth
Private Photographer
Paint and Sip Paint the Bride

WHAT’S VERY HER?

THIS IS WHERE WE WANT THE THING NO GENERIC HENS LIST COULD POSSIBLY KNOW.

  • The strange obsession.
  • The running joke.
  • The hobby nobody saw coming.
  • The drink she orders every single time.
  • The thing she has been talking about for three years.
  • Or the thing she would rather leave the country than do.
the weird hobby
the hard no
the exact drink

Her Vision Board

YOU KNOW HER. LET’S FIND THE HENS THAT FEELS LIKE HER.

The ideas you’ve picked come through with this!

What happens when you send it

Our hens-obsessed girlies at MUHQ will look at all of the deets, find packages that match, check availability and come back to you with all of the nitty gritty details – pics, menus, the $ and c, timings, personalised touches for her etc.

  1. A real person gets in touch

    We will always text you first, an actual human! One of us at MUHQ – not a bot. As you’d expect, that’s why we ask for your mobile number, so we can get back to you about the hens as you have asked us to!

  2. We talk about her

    When looking at ideas and the packages we can chat through any deets needed to narrow them down – what she’d love, what she’d hate, the mix of people coming and the date you have in mind. If something you picked won’t work together, we’ll tell you and we will let you know why and how to achieve the vibes you want!

  3. Your package, on a link ready to share

    We’ll walk you through the package we recommend on your own personalised hens link, with all of the deets included. That way you get to share it with the group so they see what they would be saying yes to before you decide to book anything. Tweaks and questions from there are normal – subject to availability of the package though as they do book every weekend and only one package is available per group per weekend – just a heads up! No point getting the girls excited about a package that is already fully booked out on your chosen weekend.

What you’ve already picked

No picks yet? Tell us about her below.

A few quick details so we can take it from here

First name is fine.
We will always text first though!
We’ll text about your hens using the number you give us.
Not locked yet? Rough is fine.
‘About 15-ish’ is a completely legitimate answer.

Pop her name in, even just her first name.

YOU’RE HER…

Tick as many as apply.

WILL WHAT’S HAPPENING BE A SURPRISE FOR THE HEN?

Oops, you have to tick that you’re not a robot!

That didn’t send. Give it one more go.

Hmm, we couldn’t confirm that one went through. Give it one more go.

We’ll look at what fits, then come back with full package details and the nitty gritty and a personalised link that you can pop into the group chat.

MELBOURNE HENS WISHLIST QUESTIONS

A hens party wishlist is not a booking. You save what feels like her, mark anything an absolute must or an absolutely not, add the one odd detail only you would know, and send it. It is free, nothing is held and nothing is charged. One of us at My Ultimate Hens reads it and comes back with the Melbourne packages that fit her, your group and your date.

GETTING STARTED

DO I NEED TO KNOW WHAT KIND OF HENS SHE WANTS BEFORE I START?+

No. You might know exactly what she wants. You might know only a couple of things she likes or dislikes. You might be starting from absolutely nothing. Browse first. The wishlist is designed to help you notice directions, not test whether you already have the answer.

AM I BUILDING MY OWN HENS PACKAGE?+

No. You are creating a wishlist. Save the hens party ideas, activities, vibes and details that feel relevant. We use those clues to narrow the My Ultimate Hens packages that fit her, your group and the date. You do not need to design the finished hens yourself.

WHAT IS THE VISION BOARD STUDIO?+

It is where the whole page actually lives. Every photo, activity and detail you save from a category collects itself there in one place, so you can see the whole picture take shape as you go. You do not need to keep it open. It just fills in behind you.

DOES MY WISHLIST SAVE AS I GO?+

Yes, for as long as you are browsing. Move between categories, come back later in the same session, change your mind. Your picks stay put until you send them or clear them yourself. We do not ask for your name or any contact details until you are ready to send it.

WHAT’S ON THE WISHLIST

WHAT KIND OF HENS PARTY IDEAS ARE ON THE WISHLIST?+

A lot. Creative classes, cocktail making, food and drink, spa and wellness, games, adventure, boats, wineries, nightlife, drag entertainment, cheekier hens ideas, accommodation, transport and personalised extras. The point is not to decide what a hens is supposed to look like. It is to find out what hers could look like.

WHAT IF SOMETHING I WANT ISN’T ON THE LIST?+

Tell us anyway. WHAT’S VERY HER? is a free text spot built for exactly that: the odd detail, the running joke, the thing no generic hens list could possibly know. It counts as a clue, the same as anything you tap.

CAN I PICK THINGS THAT CONTRADICT EACH OTHER?+

Yes, and it happens constantly. She can be an absolute must for a big night out and an absolute must for staying in pyjamas until midday. Mark both. That contradiction tells us something real about her, not a mistake to fix.

WHAT IS A LITTLE MISCHIEF?+

The cheekier end of the wishlist. If that is not her at all, one tap rules the whole category out in a single decision. If it is, you pick your level the same as anywhere else on the page.

YOUR GROUP

WHAT IF I SELECT HEAPS OF THINGS?+

Completely fine. We are not going to assume you want every single thing squeezed into one heroic twelve-hour itinerary. A bigger wishlist can simply give us a better picture of what you are drawn to.

WHAT IF I CHANGE MY MIND?+

Please do. That is what browsing is for. Something can look right until you see the thing that feels much more her. Nothing here locks you into anything.

WHAT IF THE GROUP IS STILL DECIDING?+

Also normal. Your wishlist can give you something more useful to take back to the group than another message saying: “Thoughts girls???” Once there is a clearer direction, it is much easier for people to respond to an actual idea.

HOW MANY OF US SHOULD FILL THIS IN?+

However many of you want to. Most wishlists are built by one organiser working from what she already knows, plus whatever the group chat has already said. There is no login and nothing to coordinate. Screenshot it, talk it through, come back and adjust.

CAN I CHANGE OR REMOVE SOMETHING I’VE ALREADY SAVED?+

Any time. Tap a level you have already chosen and it clears itself. Everything you have saved also shows on her vision board, just above the form, and tapping any pick there takes you straight back to change it.

DOES THE BRIDE SEE THIS?+

No, not unless you show her. The wishlist is built for the organiser. Nothing here is shared or sent anywhere until you choose to send it to us.

PACKAGES, LOCATIONS AND SENDING IT

WHAT IF WE HAVE ALREADY BOOKED PART OF THE HENS?+

Tell us. Accommodation, dinner, the final venue, something the bride specifically asked for, whatever is already fixed. It is useful context when we work out which My Ultimate Hens packages make sense around it.

WHERE ARE MY ULTIMATE HENS PACKAGES AVAILABLE?+

This one is for Melbourne hens, so your wishlist reaches us already marked Melbourne. We also do Sydney, Brisbane, the Gold Coast, Perth and Adelaide. Want to browse first? Here are our Melbourne hens party ideas.

HOW MUCH DOES A HENS PACKAGE COST?+

It depends on her, your group and what you choose, so there is no single number to give you here. Once you send your wishlist, we come back with the packages that fit, and the cost sits alongside each one. Can’t wait? See every Melbourne package.

DO YOU OWN THE VENUES?+

No. We arrange access to venues, activities and suppliers across each city we work in, rather than owning them ourselves. That is part of how we can offer so many different kinds of hens in so many different places.

IS SENDING THE WISHLIST THE SAME AS BOOKING?+

No. Sending it starts a conversation, not a booking. Nothing is held and nothing is charged. You are free to send it and still decide against everything we come back with.

WHAT HAPPENS AFTER I SEND THE WISHLIST?+

Your wishlist comes through with your enquiry. We use it alongside the practical details you have given us to narrow the My Ultimate Hens packages that fit best. You do not have to explain everything again. You have already started.